BE FLEXIBLE! - Keys to Success (Key 9) 

INTRODUCTION:

Change is one of the unavoidable aspects of our lives.  The dynamic of life is based on this unknown. We know the past and we know the present but we know little or nothing about the future. For all we know it may not happen.  Each day presents us with new and different challenges. To be flexible is to have the capacity and ability to adapt to new, different, or changing requirements. The new, the different and the things that are changing, are things we cannot escape.  Our ability or our readiness to be able to make the adjustments quickly and effectively is a key to success in life.

1.  THE ROLE OF CHANGE!

Constant change is here to stay.  It is one sure thing in life. I remember some years ago I was in the army. It was a dynamic, changing environment in which we never really knew what would happen next. Information was never given to us and everything was on a need-to-know basis and it seemed we never needed to know. We would wake up in the morning and have no idea what would happen next. To add to this there would be many rumors. The rumors would cause the troops to fly from insecurity to anxiety to anger. My friends and I soon discovered that by simply making a statement we could start a rumor and it would spread like a wild fire and cause havoc. It was easy to see those who had learned to be flexible.  Those who did not have the ability to be extremely flexible cracked.  Life may be slightly more predictable but the same principle still applies.  The greater your ability to embrace the new, the different and the changing, the greater your likelihood of success.  I once read the following quote: 'A mind once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original proportions.' This 'stretching' is the flexibility.  When someone is stretched, when they do not have the capacity to be stretched, it is destructive. But when the flexible are stretched, the sky becomes the limit!

2.  BLESSED ARE THE FLEXIBLE!

I once heard someone say the following: Blessed are the flexible for they will not be broken. It sounds like it comes from the Bible but it doesn't! It does however contain an element of truth. There is special grace for those who are flexible. When we are flexible God can get our attention. When we are flexible we are ready and able to embrace change. Lack of flexibility is often caused by pride. Proud people are often stubborn and inflexible. Humble people are generally teachable and flexible.
Proverbs 13:10 Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.

3.  THE ONE CONSTANT

In all this change that so surrounds every aspect of our lives, we often long for something constant. I was speaking to a lady the other day.  Her life had been on a bit of a roller-coaster ride. She said how she longed for her life just to plateau out. Although we long for progress and forward movement, at the same time we seem to want things to stay the same. This is because within each one of us is a longing for the constant. This longing can and should only be satisfied in our relationship with God. God is the only constant that we can hold onto.
Hebrews 13:8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever.
John 8:58 Jesus said, I say unto you, before Abraham was, I am.
The challenge is to live with flexibility in our hearts while holding onto the One who never changes!

4. DESIGNED TO CHANGE!

You and I were designed with the innate ability to change. We may be creatures of habit, but we have the ability to make decisions and change.
Matthew 3:2 Repent (think differently; change your mind, regretting your sins and changing your conduct), for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
Preconceived ideas and stubbornness make for a potential breakpoint.   God is at work in our lives. He is pruning, disciplining and leading.
Proverbs 3:12 For whom the Lord loves He corrects, even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights.
As a result we are constantly adjusting, co-operating with God, becoming what He wants us to be.
Proverbs 15:10 He who hates correction will die.

5.  ADJUSTING YOUR SAILS 

As a teenager I used to windsurf. I grew to love the sport and learned some valuable skills. At the same time I learnt many life lessons. I learnt that if you do not adjust your sails you will not have much joy. You have to constantly adjust your sails to take best advantage of the prevailing winds within your ability and strength. There were times when I felt stronger than the wind and inevitably I would be thrown off.  Sometimes in life we are like this. We constantly want to challenge the prevailing circumstances. Then we wonder why we are being thrown around. The skill is in the ability to adjust our sails effectively. To be able to realize which things we can handle and those things we cannot. When I would windsurf I would often teach others how to do it. The first thing that a novice would do was to adjust his/her sail perpendicular to the wind. The sail would suddenly fill up with air and whip the person into the water. They would always respond and say with shock: 'what did I do wrong?' In our desire to be flexible we need to learn to adjust our sails. In the process we can take on enough to facilitate progress but not so much that we land ourselves in trouble.

6. BE READY

We need to be ready for whatever changes life may demand from us.  We do not know what will happen next and this is why we need to be flexible and ready to change. This readiness is primarily an attitude.  If we have the attitude: 'This is how it has always been and this is how it always will be and we will not change', then change will demolish us when it arrives.  If, however, we say, 'Lord I entrust my life and my future into Your hands. I cannot see the future, but You can and I trust You to help me through', then we will be able to flow with the change and go from strength to strength.
2 Timothy 4:2 Be ready!

7.  LIFE - A SERIES OF SEASONS

Life is a series of seasons. Winter gives way to spring, and spring gives way to summer. Summer gives way to autumn and autumn gives way to winter.  Each season calls for a different approach.  If we do not approach winter with a different strategy we may be ill prepared. In South Africa, where we live, summer is the time when we expect the rain.  It is however not guaranteed. Sometimes summer can come without rain and this leads to drought. In this way we constantly adjust ourselves to the changes. In life we must do the same. We must be able to identify the different seasons we may be in and adjust accordingly. Seasons change! This is important to notice. We were not designed to live in winter forever.  We were meant to enjoy spring and summer as well!
2 Timothy 4:2 Be ready in season and out of season.

WRITTEN BY

Andrew and Vanessa Roebert

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